In Tiny Tarot Wisdom for Spoonies, I’ll be going through every card individually and sharing mini insights we as disabled and neurodivergent (ND) witches can take from it.
The two words I always think about with the Lovers are choice and connections. Yes, the Lovers can appear during that dizzy, fireworks-inducing flush of new romantic love. But they can also stand for new connections of any sort, including new friendships, new collaborative relationships, etc. And they signal choices, too, such as choosing the company you keep and the meaning you find in your relationships.
The Lovers tell spoonies to fall back on their people. Consciously seek out the kinds of relationships that fill you up and recharge you. If you already have romantic partners or dear friends, carve out time to spend with them. If you feel somewhat isolated, look for ways to find your people. Online groups can be an incredible lifeline for us if going to in-person meetups is too overwhelming, physically or mentally. I’m part of a fibromyalgia discord server, and I’ve met people there who I believe will be in my life forever. What choice can you make today to start finding and fostering those connections?